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Re: Dusting myself off.... Tomato #1638596 11/04/08 04:46 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Thanks Tomato, I think my H could use some prayers, actually, a LOT of prayers (then again couldn't we all...) $\:\)$ I just pray that he can get over his fear and try to be a family with me and the kids again. Stop being afraid and do it. I said that today when he said he was scared, I said, "That's why they call it a 'leap of faith'"... I pray that God will help Dan take that leap..... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Dusting myself off.... BobbiJo #1638599 11/04/08 04:49 AM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,839 Midwest T theotherhalf Member
theotherhalf Member T Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,839 Midwest	BBJ, hang in there girl. With God ALL things are possible... Hey, you don't have "Willard" relation do you? I have a cousin in Iowa that's name is BBJ. TOH M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!

Re: Dusting myself off.... theotherhalf #1638603 11/04/08 04:50 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	No, I don't have Willard relation, but BBJ is becoming more common around these parts.... $;\)$ Thanks for posting, I need to remember to always trust in God to do what is right and lean not on my own understanding.... Good night everybody. My brain needs to sleep......... Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Dusting myself off.... BobbiJo #1638606 11/04/08 04:53 AM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,839 Midwest T theotherhalf Member
theotherhalf Member T Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,839 Midwest	Night BBJ, hope for a better day tomorrow... TOH M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!

Re: Dusting myself off.... BobbiJo #1638774 11/04/08 12:16 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast T Tomato Member
Tomato Member T Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast	Originally Posted By: BobbiJo I pray that God will help Dan take that leap..... He will & I will be continuously praying for it. Dan ... my prayer project. In the crosshairs .. debut thread

Re: Dusting myself off.... Tomato #1638778 11/04/08 12:18 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast T Tomato Member
Tomato Member T Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast	hope you got some rest. Your whole family will be in my prayers. debut thread

Re: Dusting myself off.... Tomato #1638780 11/04/08 12:19 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast T Tomato Member
Tomato Member T Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 4,058 Northeast	the least I can do. and maybe the most at the same time. debut thread

Re: Dusting myself off.... Tomato #1638799 11/04/08 01:14 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo OP Member
OP BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Thanks, Tomato. That really means a lot to me, we have never met and yet you are praying for my Husband and my family. Dan is a lucky guy, even if he doesn't see it........... I will pray for you as well Tomato. Onward and upward, today is a new day! Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: Dusting myself off.... BobbiJo #1638864 11/04/08 02:32 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,948 ND P Phoenixdeux Member
Phoenixdeux Member P Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 1,948 ND	Bobbi, Duct tape your mouth closed or get a lawyer. Quit with the interrogation. If I was your husband and put on the spot like you did, I'd have said, "I don't know, I'm scared", but been thinking, "please put me out of my misery." Enough with the pressure! Lawyer up or shut up You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer

Re: Dusting myself off.... Phoenixdeux #1638942 11/04/08 03:30 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 6,350 Tampa, FL S Sara Member
Sara Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 6,350 Tampa, FL	I disagree with PD. I don't get why it is just fine for the WAS to have some kind of emotional crisis that leads him act erratically, but PD thinks the LBS has no right to react. We are humans. The H's crisis directly caused the W's crisis. She is entirely entitled to her feelings. And in a marriage he needs to deal with her feelings just as much as she needs to deal with his. His emotional crisis should not be a "get out of dealing with your spouse's feelings free" card. That said, I like your new attitude BBJ. I hope you can keep it up when he comes back.

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