I half expected this. Actually my daughter was very uncomfortable telling me. I guess she did not want to hurt me. It does not hurt as much as you guys might think. maybe i will have a delayed reaction. One thing it does tell me....in case i have not noticed...she is moving on big time. So it is up to me to do the same. One thing is certain, she will find it more and more difficult to reach me on the phone to discuss everyday "stuff".....D7 no problem...the rest she can now ask you know who. BBJ, my wife is in her forties and for the longest time she has always dressed alot younger than her age. Don't get me wrong she is a good looking woman but a little in your face with her attire at times.