I am totally confused and bewildered by what is going on now, I know I will not believe it until I see it, she as been calling me again to see where my lawyers letter as got to, she refered to this as "I havent received my letter yet" she also stated "I have spoke to my solicitor and I have spoke to my estate agent(realtor)" what I dont get is how she as taken over everything that ex should be doing it is his solicitor, the letter was going to him not her and it is his property so he should be dealing with the house, mmm very interesting how she has taken over because apparently this is how she as worked her other failed marriages. anyhow something else that she said is the fact that they cannot afford to go through lawyers this time and sit and wait whilst post goes from one lawyer to the other, so what she has done is gone to the banks and obtained the forms (how she as done that god only knows as her name isnt on the accounts and therefore she shouldnt be given any information whatsoever about them, so something tells me ex must have gone with her) so she claimed last night to be filling in the forms for him and writing a cover note for him to sign, then she offered to bring them here, I declined and told her to use the postal service, so fingers crossed but I wait with baited breath, we should find out tomorrow if she is telling the truth and if she has actually managed to get ex to sign over sons bank accounts. we'll wait and see. Something else that was interesting was in the letter to my lawyer it has been said that a family member is offering to loan them the money to pay me the amount I am due in order for them to get on with renting the place, mmm all very strange I think, or should I say dont know what to think, theyve no money they claim, someone is having to loan them money, after all they had, they are doing the old place up to be able to rent it, and she is being nicey nicey to me. my guard is up folks dont get me wrong, she is a deep devious woman and I wouldnt trust her as far as I could throw her. what still gets me though is how she is communicating with me and supposedly sorting financial things out after all this time and where is ex shouldnt it be him that comes to the forefront and deals with all this mess he as caused, something tells me life isnt rosey over the garden wall anymore, especially since she referred to him as a pain in the a**e mmm has the honeymoon period gone. hugs folks
