Yes, his love language is AoS by far and then Words of Affirmation (I think). I am not impressed, you see my LL is QT and Physical Touch.Hmmmm... I see a problem here.
Anyway, I would have been a LBW that wouldnt have given a 2nd chance to her WAH if he was a bit late(er). He will never know how lucky he has been. No idea. Not even you know how close I was this weekend again. I sent that message without thinking only to be saved by the crying and tearing myself appart. I hope the effort will have some good results. K
Wow, my H is AOS and I am QT and Phys. Touch......
We have both noticed that we often give each other what WE want instead of what the other person wants.........good job on you for figuring that out between you and your H.
Someday he may realize just how lucky he is that his time didn't run out...........I am glad you gave him that chance.
When I read your reply to H, I said to myself "good for you." I'm glad you have let him know you are hoping for the best b/t you two, but you are scared. I think it is very, very important for him to know this, so it is great you told him.
I also agree that he is showing rather than just saying, so that is also very, very positive.
You are gently leading the way and you don't realize it. So, instead of thinking about "leading" just continue to be the Sunshine and you will lead naturally. He seems as if he wants to continue to follow and is making an honest effort to try and "catch up" to the new Maria. Good for him, that DAM.
Finally, you said you like the physical contact, well, you'll know soon enough if you want to be touched and loved on by him. If he continues to show lasting change, the physical feelings will return for you as well.
Just sit back and relax. You should be in observation mode right now. The rest will come when it is time.
I'm so impressed by the way you are handling this with so much honesty with him. No eggshells, right? That would be no way to live for the rest of your life.
I'm going to be looking forward to your updates!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I have the sneaking suspicion.. I could make some money with that one.
I'm Rich B....
"He will never know how lucky he has been. No idea. Not even you know how close I was this weekend again. I sent that message without thinking only to be saved by the crying and tearing myself apart."
DAMn you Woman.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
I will let Jeff decide who it is "on"..................(I am sure it will be you, unless Lisa is reading!)
This is what I get for Good Morning... (what do you mean?)