Hi Ali,

In fact yes. He was quite active on IM yesterday, and yes I know I was supposed to go dark on him...I didn't want him to know I'd taken time off of work though so was sporadically available. He is rightly worried about me damaging my career so I try to keep the fact that this situation is getting to me at work from him.

He reached out to say hi in the morning, but that he was busy and working on a presentation. Then he reached out a few hours later to say he'd gotten kudos on his presentation. Then again he reached out later to say something about my IM picture, and tell me how he didn't do much the night before but work on his homework and his presentation and go to dinner...

The last topic was business, and it was about someone coming here to repair the boiler. I was always polite in response but didn't offer any information beyond what was needed around the boiler repair.

Not sure what kind of communication I might see today. I think there is a possibility that H will panic a little wondering if I will be in the house when he gets back, so there is the chance that he will ask me about this. Am hoping not, but it's a real possibility.

Yes like you, I feel a little bit better. I am not so much happy as just less torn up right now. I don't feel as completely powerless as I did before.

I'm also looking forward to reading the Priya Kale blog. I have gone back through various big events over the past few months, and oftentimes they do seem to fit in well with her predictions and descriptions.

Hope you're having a good day (if you're even up yet!:))

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!