I was just reading your thread. Is GAL'ing helping you at all? I took up something fun like salsa lessons as a GAL. I really didn't want to but the book says to GAL so I signed up and it really helped. It was something fun and just for me where I could get my mind off of the A.
By the way have you ever heard of the book Surviving An Affair by Willard Harley? It really has ALOT of information on what goes through the mind of these walkaway spouses. I have recommended it in addition to the DR books, its a great compliment to it and really helped to understand the addiction aspect in Affairs too.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
