What happens if he doesn't obey the order - you know, calls you at work or wherever?

Are your children in C or have you thought about seeking it? I'm so sorry to hear your S is having a really hard time. Give him lots of love and reassurance. I'm sure you already are. \:\)

Well, like you told the kids, try not to look at Hus when you go back into court, but if you do, don't let him scare you. You're a tough gal, Goldey, and you're going to make it through this. You're SuperBoots, remember ;\) ? You can do ANYTHING.

((((((((((SuperGoldeyBoots))))))))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell