Not yet, but I am thinking I should. She needs to know (if she still cares) about her M and what is happening... doesn't she?
Darlin' she needs to know no matter how she feels about it. That is not your concern. You need to do the right thing and tell her. This levels the playing field for all concerned.
Take the letter with the envelope and put it somewhere W can't get at it.
FWIW...
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
(((kat)))
She is already sleeping in D11's bed. No worries there. She has kicked D11 to the couch!
The poor kid no longer has her own bed???!!!
This is BS and I wouldn't hesitate telling W that she would be the one sleeping on the couch. She has chosen this and its unfair for DD to have to suffer because her mother is being an inconsiderate bitch. Sorry Lost, but its true. Any mother that would displace her child is a bitch. Swing those 2X4's but I stand by it. Its wrong and I wouldn't put up with it for a second.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Randy, you are so much in the thick of it. You know I've been there too.
You've been handling this with so much class. Believe me, its hard finding those "truths" about what they do, when they do, where they do. I found hotel receipts in her name. WTF! SHE had to pay?
Be well, friend.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
I found hotel receipts in her name. WTF! SHE had to pay?
Tom sounds like a classy guy H4H.
((((Lost)))) You are a classy man and getting slapped upside the head with proof of her infidelity is hard, I know. Just keep doing what you have been doing. I tell you that you are a "do-right man" and you are. You have proven it time and time again. Keep up the good fight. (((hugs))) I'm still really pissed about her ousting DD out of her bed, but that may be a fight for another day.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I think it's a fight for NOW. If your wife can't put her own children's needs ahead of her own, then she needs to leave.
Period.
Puppy
P.S. You need to document this, and - I hate to say it - take a picture of your daughter sleeping on the couch, and of your wife sleeping in her daughter's bed.
