More on changes...

There are many positive changes you can make that your husband may never see. For example, I rearranged the furnature in my (formerly our) house the first week W was gone. There were just too many old memories. Even something as rearranging the furnature made the space seem 'new'. It really helped, especially the bedroom.

Get some candles. Make your living space smell different.

These changes improve your PMA. How can you feel good about yourself if you don't change? The 'old' you lost your husband. Not much to feel good about there. You need to change, so that you can feel good about the 'new' you. Change, change, change.

Last edited by techguy; 11/04/08 03:06 AM.

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