Update-

Found out from my L that a 'status check' court date is set for early March. So I have at least until then to give my sitch a shot. Not sure what my best plan will be yet. I live long distance from stbx and right now he wants the D, but is 'friendly'.

Last talked to stbx 5 days ago now- of course I am DBing and will not be the one to contact him. Part of me wonders if there is enough to go on here.

Any thoughts for me?


DBer since 2003
D - 3/24/09
GAL and DBing for myself