So, I just tried to go into this MLC site to get some insight. They have a chat room.

Damn those are a bunch of angry people! They are so anti-marriage. When I tried to express a little that I still loved my H, they jumped all over me and said I was fooling myself, it was unrequitted love and that if he did come back I would try and spend my life making him miserable for hurting me. They wanted to know why I just didn't file for the divorce and move on with my life. Don't people believe in trying to save a marriage anymore? I have to tell you, this really bugged the crap out of me. I realize that things between my H and I are dark right now, but that doesn't change the way I feel at all.

I think I am staying away from chat rooms.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..