Thanks whatdid, you provide such words of wisdom to sooo many. You have become the female version of puppy!! Even though I didn't save my marriage because truly the other party has to come around to trying, I still think I am a success story because I didn't fall apart when it ended and I can see a much happier future up ahead.
Now if I could just get my foot out of the cr@p it is stuck in at the moment, I would be off and running!!lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I agree, Kat. That's why I think you are a strong lady. YOu did all the dbing you could. You did the right thing in trying to save your marraige. Even with all that, he chose a different path. Nothing you can do about that. You are divorced, healing, and growing. GOd has something else in store for you now. Wonder what it'll be?
You are too good Corey!! Just as long as you all remember to check on me once and a while for the reason that I may have a real ISSUE and not just want to be the comic relief, I will gladly keep up the humor department of DB!!
kat
Always. The humor is wonderful and much needed, but I'm here for you anytime you need me, especially when the going is tough as you have been there for me time and time again. Thanks for being you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Well I am going to credit counseling on Thursday. I want to get my options straight before I just jump. One L I talked to said that my ex needed an attitude adjustment and should be taken to court since he is in contempt, but the L that he referred me to says you can't get money that isn't there and all I could do is file a claim that certain debts should not get discharged.
No clear answers. I am trying to protect myself and my kids and that is all I can do. I will let you know what I find out.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks whatdid and Corey! I guess I have the reputation of having the fun thread which is fine but I still have problems that I need advice on once and a while. Happy to take the steam off the pot every now and then. Did I mention I love my DB friends?
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory