Thanks for the incite, my W won't let me near her sexually. WOW you are strong with your sitch I feel for you as well. My DB coach didn't recommend the deadline but understood it. He gave me guidelines on how to approach the sitch and not to mention the PA. I guess I have to be at peace with my decision and I pray about it daily. I have also been praying for all of you. I am listening to all of the wisdom here and I will certainly think about this hard. More of my thoughts and motivation are in the above posts to trapt. I am trying to think rationaly using the DB mentality. This forum has helped with my emotions.
Cheers, Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me