Good for you that it is over and you can move forward. I guess now you can actually kiss G40, right?
Anyway, I do agree w/ Phoenixdeux b/c it is sad that any marriage has to come to a D. However, I know you can hold your head up high for taking the high road and it is on XW to see that she wasn't willing to change in the end. It is unfortunate, but it is true.
Your next one will last b/c you've learned a lot out of this process, as unfortunate as that may seem. I too am beginning to understand and accept that I'll be better and much happier w/out XW. I wish it wasn't like this, but it is and thus, I can either brood about it or learn and grow from it.
Growing is what the correct answer is and you, my friend, have shown tremendous growth and class throughout your entire process.
