Thanks whatdid, you provide such words of wisdom to sooo many. You have become the female version of puppy!! Even though I didn't save my marriage because truly the other party has to come around to trying, I still think I am a success story because I didn't fall apart when it ended and I can see a much happier future up ahead.
Now if I could just get my foot out of the cr@p it is stuck in at the moment, I would be off and running!!lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory