Let him fly...

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Bobbi... I see you going into overdrive also and wonder why dont you do what Jeff always advised me to (wisely)... DO NOTHING.

Stop panicking, threatening to file, asking questions, throwing pillows out into the hallway, pushoing him to tell you you are cute...? Just relax, do nothing, wait and see. If you keep pushing, you may just push him to do something he himself isnt happy with, but its better than the frustration and turmoil he is in and sees you in. Can you be calm? Can you be an oasis!? Can you lovingly detach? Let him be?

I lnow he's being an *rse and its frustrating, but just step back, maybe reread some of the DB/DR advice, work on your patience?

I guess we are all doing gentle 2x4s here! Let some of the angst subside?

Thinking of you, you are on the speedy bit of the rollercoaster!
Al xxx