I'm new here to Separated. I figured it was time to move on from Newcomers.
For those that don't want to review all my threads, here's the long story short: (Just stagnant is most recent if you want to read that one)
My H is going to chiro school. We began to grow apart slowly in the last couple of years. Sex was very low - under 10 times a year I would say. He had an EA with a classmate. Is probably still going on, I don't know. Could be physical. We haven't talked much in the last 4 months. Except for the last week. We've talked almost everyday since he's been on break from school. I've been supportive of him since he's been really down - failed 2 classes last trimester. Our friendship has been developing in the last week. We've been more open with each other. Last night we had dinner and watched a movie. But strictly friendly terms except for a long hug at the end when he asked me to "give" him some of my faith in God.
So, today he called me to tell me that he's taping Oprah for me. He stopped by the house to be with the dog and raked leaves. Don't know if anyone has watched it today. But evidently he relates to a couple on there. The woman is controling and motherly and they don't have much sex. H says that this is "probably what happened with us". I have a feeling that H thinks that our sitch is something that can't be turned around. (He wants "fire" in his life and has said that he doesn't think we can get it back)
So, what should I do about the show. I will watch, but do I respond??? And if so, how?
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
