sorry I haven't stopped by over te past couple of days. I have just been catchigup with your thread. I feel yopur pain and know how exausting it can be. The practicing how to handle things is a great idea. Any kind of mental prep will help you avoid getting sucked in to the wirlwind of the R topic. She will see a man in control! when I recently comfirmd that she wa having a PA I was surprised how much better I handled it because of this forum and the divorce busting mentality.
Sending you positive vibes from Canada,
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me