Sorry Robert, mainly for the kids sake and the fact that the system is set up to assure that your wife can essentially mooch off of you until the kids are grown. I would have paid the child support money just to have my kids full time. I hope that you've worked out something by now...maybe you can have them 70% of the time or something.

I know how hard this is. It's so bad to have the kids go through this. I'm amazed that you have dealt with the emotions surrounding your wife, but perhaps you are keeping those at bay mainly with anger towards her. Hopefully you'll write and let us know how things are.

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer