Well I am sure your daughter's psych. can see through your H's bs. He doesn't seem to know your daughter very well and sees her meltdowns as a parental "flaw" and not for what they are.

My ex gets all 'mushy" in front of the kids when he was never like that before the A. They aren't stupid, they see the guilt sweating out of his body, so I have no doubt that your kids know who has hung in there with them through the good and bad...good ole Mom.

Hugs,

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
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