Thanks, God bless You. I know based on posting here, the book and other resources that i am doing the right thing to re-engage this relationship with her. i think getting the visuals out of my way will definitely help me over the top. I think once she sees the clothes thing, she has to realize that her cake eating days are clsed or are closing on her. I am going out with friends of mine Saturday to shoot pool. they are friends of both of ours, but she'll probably be with OM this weekend so I can go and visit with them. they told me how much they miss me and want me to come out with them. Made me feel real good. Object, no conversations about her or relationship. i just don'rt want this to be another "test".
I feel a lot etter now. D says she was there today. when she left she was very upset, not mad, upset. She didn't stay long. I guess she went into the bedroom, looked around, opened her drawers then wnet to the closet. she never asked where her clothes were or anything. My D watched her because she knew I had done this. She left shortly after. I asked if she left a note or anything and she said no. I think I hit a nerve.
