I have seen several statistics (sorry, I am going by memory here and do not have a source) that suggest between 8-20% of divorces eventually end up in remarriage - 14% seems to be the most common figure.
I also would suggest you take a look at Rejoice Ministries and perhaps sign up for the daily email.
I too wish for a re-marriage. Sometimes I wonder why though, considering she has lied and cheated and was generally disrespectful before announcing she wanted out. I add that last part because after the bomb we got along great, including marital relations for the next seven months. I realize she is a poster child for MLC, but I still can not believe she did all this.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM