What I guess I don't get with Dan is-- WHAT is so scary about TRYING to make a marriage with 2 young children and a beautiful, loving, wife work? Why not TRY? Someone may get hurt if it doesn't get worked out, but NEWSFLASH: If he doesn't try everyone gets hurt.
What is he afraid of? Seriously. Do you know? What can possibly happen if he tries his best and puts faith in the woman who wants nothing but his happiness? He'll... what... fail to love you? This is just... ugh...
A.) If he tries he may fail. B.) If he doesn't try he positively will. What does he have to lose? What is he afraid of?
This is what I truly want to make sure he "GETS"--that not choosing, IS making a choice, that his decision/indecision affects us all, that we are WORTH the risk! But I obv. am not getting through.........so I feel I should leave it alone. Grr...
