BBJ,I told you before, I "see" the old Bbj coming back. You are not DBing, you are not detaching, you need, just as you said, to slow down.
Do you think about anything else at the moment? You are panicking and you want him to fix this NOW. And you get frustrated because he obviously cant.
This whole thing started when a few weeks ago you saw Dan reverting to some of his old behaviors and you automatically switched to some of your old behaviors as well.
Cut it out. Yes he is being a jerk and yes he is confused and he needs IC and he has no clue how good you are for him but what he is and isnt you know best in your heart. His weaknesses you choose to forgive, you love him and that's all it matters.
Now, concentrate, focus and draw a line. Don't act or talk for a while. Just think. What you want, where you are, how patient you can be, if you are able to do this. Slow down. Regroup, breathe... K
