So, what would step one be, Deauxlie? I am just so confused, for the past 2 weeks I am afraid I have been doing this all wrong. Well, not all wrong, b/c H admits things have been 'different' and he was 'enjoying' spending time with me, then I went all psycho-bully on him and tried to push him into declaring his love for me.
I think in his own little way he thought coming to bed and kissing me goodbye was 'trying'.....because several weeks ago I pushed him a bit on our M and he said "I don't get it, I just kissed you goodbye this morning and you wonder if I want to be with you?" or something like that.
Anyway, my question to the world is, if this candle is still flickering with a tiny flame, how do I help it grow and not snuff it out? I want some concrete, do-able things, please!
