I just checked back to find out about what you were asking my opinion on as far as the email. Since, I will admit that I have not been following along until now.
Thanks for the easy starter Q. I think it is pretty clear that he was checking up on you for reasons that only he knows of.
Take care my fellow distinguished friend. And pray more and you will be happier. It is not about just making sure the boys get to church. I just started going to a new one ...a UCC church. I like it and may settle there and try and get active.