Pretty amazing stuff Bobbijo. Not the kind of stuff that I would say WTF about, but that's me. There .. that was my 2X4. lol.
All I can say is that it is good that he is heading out of town. It would seem that the two of you need to be apart. The ole "things happen for a reason" would seem to apply here.
You need to commit to Zero, ZERO attempts at even thinking about anything to do with fixing Dan and pulling him out of his "funk". Even indirect means of this should be off limits. R talks surely fall into that category.
My recent mild disintegration over the last week was largely due to the idea that I began to think that I was entitled to certain conduct/respect from my darling. As I have been able to step back from the interaction with her, I can see that this was very contributory to the recent slide. Before I go pretending like I know so much about all this R stuff, I will leave it at that.
