I bet your H is what Dr. Phil calls a "right fighter" --- more interested in being right then being happy. I used to be like that, but life has taught me that sometimes ya just gotta let some things go.
You're sound a lot chirpier today --- sure hope so.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim