He will probably bring the boys over sometime during the holidays. I was wondering if I should do something more in terms of cooking dinner for them. Even if it's not on Christmas Day, I think the boys would like to have a home-cooked dinner (ham, turkey, etc.) BUT I don't know if my H would have a problem with that. In the past he would say "I don't want you to go into the trouble, etc." It could be that he feels bad "making" me do the work, OR he may think it's uncomfortable having a "family-like celebration when we're not actually a family anymore".
