It's encouraging to hear from someone close in age to my husband and myself. He and I don't have children either. I think that's the hardest pill to swallow with OW possibly being pregnant. Before he left, when he was still "pretending to work on our marriage" we talked about having a baby and I was ready. We were set in our careers, had a home, had traveled all over the country. We were ready and the person who's having his baby is supposed to be me.
I'm so glad you referenced faith and praying because that's a big part of my life now. In some ways, I believe this happened to allow me to find God. Some people would find that an odd statement but before this happened I wasn't on much of a better path than my H. I didn't have a MLC or A but I didn't have that spiritual part of my life either. Even though it seems like something worse happens everyday, I've had a certain peace about everything since I've started going to church. I pray for my H soul everyday and I won't stop no matter what.
