Trying2Live-Post #3

[hope3343]

Hello everyone,
First All, looks like you had a busy weekend. I worry about you having R with your H. He seems to be trying to see many women and with all types of STD or worse going around -- please please wear protection. I think your H is a sex addict and is he seeing C for this? Also are you going to any type of C for yourself. I think you are doing good with GAL but make sure you are doing all those things for yourself and what you want, not just to see how H sees it and reacts to it. You are at least going out and meeting new people which is a good thing for you.

I know I'm not set in stone- but I really feel today like if we didn't have kids he would never see my face again. And, that would be ok with me.

Hi Faith, tough times. I can say we all feel like throwing out our M when our H's are so inconsiderate and just pull our hearts out. But in reading your last sentence the hard part is yes we do have kids and what impact it has on them. You also said that you hated when you had to meet your parent's dates, so that is telling me what a negative impact it had on you growing up. You are the only one who can decide what is right for you and you have our support no matter what you decide. But I just thought it was telling by you with those 2 sentences.
I am very hurt by my H's actions and his A with OW, but at least by trying I will feel that I did all that I could. I have to figure out for me when "enough is enough". Keep us posted.

T2L, I do agree about having conversations with our Hs. Your right we forget how. I know I got in a rut only talking about job, D, bills -- nothing else. I remember when H was still living with me at the end and one night, H says I am going out - - I hate looking at these 4 walls all the time. Which was probably true at that point because weekends we were not doing anything social at all.

Txmom will look at your thread and post there.