I am not sure what my next step will be. I think I will hold off and see if he reaches out first. I might just send a friendly "Don't forget to vote" text either tonight or tomorrow morning. And I have been thinking about what to say to him on Fri (His b-day).
Last night was purely physical, yet we were never much talkers..lol. He is a very quiet guy and we always seemed to be able to talk with out words. Like it was weird our minds were almost connected, I would start to say something and without even finishing he would know what I was saying. We would always laugh about it because sometimes one of us would only think something and then the other would bring up that topic.
I'm not going to get him anything as this would actually be my 180, I am usually a big gift giver and for once I will only acknowledge his b-day as he did mine.
I too think that alot was said physically so I am more comfortable and more optimistic about our situation. I do think that he noticed the wedding picture on the dresser in the bedroom though. He didn't say anything but he didn't bolt and run away either.
I think you have a lot of positives in your situation Sep. It's only a matter of time and with your GAL and PMA the time will fly by and you will both make it out stronger on the other side.
I sent him a text this morning just saying Good morning and reminding him that he should vote and he LOLed me. He has NO interest in politics at all so I did it in a joking matter. At least he responded!!
Just some light banter via texts about the election through out the day. This was something that was normal pre-bomb as he always teased me about how into politics I was.
Aww that's sweet. Seems like you're barreling to stage 2!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I think I might have done a big "No-No" last night.
About a month ago H got a deliquency notice because he didn't file his quarterly report for his business (I always took care of this for him), I texted him and he thanked me and said he'd pick it up when he got a chance but the last few tiems he has been over he has forgotten his mail. I noticed it last night when I got home and added more mail to his pile and took it upon myself to file the last 2 quarters for him.
I realized after that I probably shouldn't have done it and texted him, it was about midnight because I came home late from work, "Hey I realized that all your mail was still here so I went ahead and I filed the state taxes for you. I hope it's ok, I just didn't want you to get a fine. Good night mister. "
I still have not heard anything back and am a little nervous now. I mean he could just be working and has not had a chance to write back....no assumptions, I know.
I don't think it's such a big thing that you did this, do you?
You were trying to be nice, only good intentions, and you didn't chide him or anything.
I'd bet that worst case scenario he's mildly annoyed with you, or more likely annoyed with himself for not filing. I would say too that the text message was fine. Does he always write back right away? He'll probably write you back later.
Seriously, I wouldn't worry about this at all!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
