My H moved out in mid July after I found out about EA with woman he works with. He pretended to break it off and we went to MC until late Sept. I thought things were going great, we saw each other and talked almost every day. Late Sept. he freaked out one day and said he couldn't do it anymore, wanted a D-took his wedding ring off. Late Oct. found out he hadn't broke off initial EA and it had turned into PA-still going on.
H has broken off all communication-I don't even know his phone number. He's told me he's completely in love with her, it's not just sexual, but they have this amazing emotional connection. He'd talk to her 24/7 if he could. He ended up quitting his job and blames me for this because he was afraid I'd expose their A and he'd get fired anyway. He's told me he hates me for his job and never wants to see me again.
I want to believe all I need to do is be patient and let the A run it's course but I'm not for sure what to do. I read all the posts where H is seeing OW but still initiates communication with W. My H is dead set on D and tells me not to hold on to any false hope. Although, he still tells me he loves me and will always love me no matter what happens.
