I think I may belong here.

[kelaaron]

So many people think the guide stuff is so hard. It is if you can't quiet your mind. But we all have little voices in our heads that aren't ours. I used to get everything in dreams, though I was crazy, just having wierd dreams when I was younger, but then I started seeing my exact dream on the news a week or so later. That is when I really started paying attention. A lot of people talk about meditation. I do not do that well at all. I tend to fall asleep. These past couple of years, I too have been influenced by the fog of H and the fog of MIL and my mind was way too busy to hear anything. I kept having these great thoughts or ideas but couldn't do anything about them which just made me more depressed.

In the last few months, I have had time to myself again. I have been listening to the inner voices more. As I still am not 100percent that they aren't just my ego or conscious telling me what I want to hear, I have had two readings with two different psychics whose abilities I totally trust. Confirmations galore of what I was hearing myself. I only have luck reaching my family in dreams. Otherwise, to reach them directly, I have needed help. My uncle finally came through in one of my recent readings (I have only had 3 in my life). But I do get my grandparents a lot in my dreams. I just pray my nightly prayers and then I ask them to come to me. If I have questions or things I want to know, I tell them while I'm awake, and I usually get the answers while I'm sleeping. Sometimes I just want to see them. So yesterday I needed more confirmation just because I was down. The message that I received in Church yesterday was perfect and just what I needed to hear. (metaphysical church)

There are some great sites on the internet that can help you to reach your guides. Just google spirit guides. Some are paganistic, which I don't like but the prinicpal is the same.

Thanks for the more detailed info on my H. I thought that he was starting to process more but I wasn't totally sure. Priya Kale has been so on with what has been going on with each of us it is almost scary. I will tell you, my H would never open an astrology book for anything so at least the way he defined what he is feeling is going through his head. LOL.