PH, regarding your H, is there a diplomatic way that instead of asking your H to spend time with you on the holidays (which is the real intention) to ask if there is a way that you can spend some time with the boys and say "of course, you too"?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
