LD - Hang in there. Sounds like you are doing well in handling the situation now. Emotionally this will be tough for some time to come.....probably a long while. All the history and all the memories.

It will be easier if you stay out of the MLC drama and get on with your life. Your W will see this.

This is not about you or your marriage. This is about her. This is not your fault. She will have to hit bottom and look inward.

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final