Thank you all for your support and replies.

This will be one year for me on Thanksgiving day. I have known for a long time that I don't need him, today I don't think I want him either.

He has called three times and emailed me twice this morning, I haven't responded. I think I'll just go dark for a while. I need some space. I'll continue to read all the books to be able to help myself recover, but I don't know about working on my marriage. You all know how our feelings change with each interaction, so I know I'm not set in stone- but I really feel today like if we didn't have kids he would never see my face again. And, that would be ok with me.


Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
Too many bombs to count:(