Awesome advice. I do need to distance myself much more. She has really taken advantage as far as day switching. I did take I stand and had 1st right of refusal clause put in to the temp. agreement, which if she has to be gone four more than 4 hrs. I have to be offered the kids first.
This did not set well with her but hey, this is what she thinks she wants.
Detachment is getting easier by the day. I need to not be avail. so much. This needs work, but I'm moving in the right direction.
I also have to remind myself when she withdraws and has an attitude its not always bad.
Thank you so much, I'll drop by your thread soon. Take care, T
