You say he isn't going to file, or he would have already.
Then WTF?
Why come BACK TO OUR BED after being gone 2 weeks? Why KISS me this morning? Why say "I am thinking" when I ask why he is coming to bed with me?
If H wants a Divorce...
Then, when I say, "I am not happy living like this. I am going to a lawyer", why not say
*OK, if it is what YOU want (he'd get the D but make it MY fault, win/win for him)
or say,
*OK fine (he got what he wanted, he won)
or say
*Hallelujah! (if he REALLY REALLY wants a D)
I just don't understand his brain......I just don't see why someone who wants a D would drag his feet like this. Even if he didn't want to be the one to file, then why do things to throw me off once I have said I will file?
