I'm struggling with what to say. I think DBing in the truest sense would probably say quit forcing this issue....but I keep thinking that you have to play this out. You can't keep up with the, "well then, I'm getting a lawyer." without actually getting one.
I'm not sure he will actually get off the snide unless he's losing you. Can you let him know that he's losing you? Can you show him detachment? And can you show him the best possible you so that he knows what he's losing? Can you start the D process rolling even if he lets it go through?
This is hard. It could actually be that he wants you to divorce him. Maybe he struggles with pulling the trigger, but would be happy if you did. I don't know.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
