"So, this getting divorced thingy changes the current situation how?
LOL!! D6 only asked a couple questions afterwards and they were about when I worked ("Who will watch us if Daddy doesn't live here?") I said "Daddy. He is always welcome here when you guys are here." We did tell them that some day soon Daddy will get his own house and they will have a room there, and can bring their toys and favorite things. D4 asked "Who will carry the heavy stuff to Daddy's new house?". "Daddy!".
I feel so much better today. I am thankful I was in a good place emotionally because I know they would have been soooo upset if I cried. Or even xH. A year ago, I couldn't say the word 'divorce' without emotion. I suppose it is one good thing to be in a good spot when telling them.
Still blecky, but not horrible.
D6 has a club at school. They meet once a week as a group with the counselor. We are signing her up this week.
