Guys, the stages aren't completly independent of each other. When they are in replay (when there is OP, spending, stupidness), they can still be very depressed. That is why I'm not so sure yet exactly where we are but the OP seems to be gone and the spending is improving. Either that or he is hiding it very well and my guides are lying. (Which they don't do)
Ali, yes there is supposed to be a psychic connection with Venus/Pluto, and we also have some other things that indicate one. Sort of funny cuz, I have recently felt H was reading here or somehow hearing my phone conversations cuz I would think of something, then he would do it. I was probably sending him the messages without even knowing it. Or receiving what he was thinking about. I too know usually when he will text or call and even know if it is good or bad before I look at it. Always have. I just have to be more careful right now, as I have been opening my channels to my guides a lot more but I haven't been keeping them closed to him. I only want to send to him what I want him to know. Actually I don't mind you seeing the humor. That was an honest feeling that I have and it is kinda funny. I too am learning to see the humor in the whole thing.
Just sit back and see what happens with BF. I believe we are all in turning points right now, personally and globally, and big changes are coming. You can do it. I don't know if you want him back or not but I believe the possibility exists. You also know that Leo's are in for a very rough ride right now, so this is your time to be there for him if he reaches out and shine!
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.