She basically hinted that if I'd only kept her secret, she might be reconsidering.
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So, to recap, is she toying with me and my emotions because she misses the sense of control that she once had, because she is truly uncertain, or because she just wants to avoid feeling judged by her family?
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Hey ManinMotion, It sounds like two things. She doesn't like being judged by her family and she's reminding you that there is something that you've done that has yet again ruined your chances at reconciling. She's just trying to put blame back on you. Don't buy into it. Pay no attention. If what she is doing is acceptable, why should she worry about what her family thinks? Why would they be judgemental? How can what they feel be blamed on your actions?
I'm walking on the same path with you, only my W was the one to file initially. I'll be picking up the papers this week to see what I'm in for.
