I take the 10 min option as a starter and it may lead to a better timed bit later. (sorry if that sounds crude but you get me right ?). Or, alternatively, secretly set the alarm for 15 mins earlier and then pretend you must of miss set the alarm by accident but you do now have 20 mins spare if W is interested.
I've no idea what it is with women and early morning quickies, my W was the same and that was never a good time for me as takes me 15 mins to get my head together....lol.
