Hey Lan. I'm totally non religious myself after being brought up by religious parents. It doesn't make you a bad person and I do sometimes still pray and ask my parents to pray for friends when they are in trouble. I'm sure they've prayed for me a lot over the years and especially the last few months. Hypercritical ? maybe, but I jut look at me as who I am and I am comfortable with who I am and that I know wrong fromright and harm no one. That's enough for me personally.
Going to bed now really feeling happy and positive. Not sure why as having a tough time of late (in the head). Will start a new thread tomorrow, so be sure to pop by.
Chin up and hugs and best to you and yours. Your a good man, with a huge heart. I hope your W will realise this soon and you can have the strong loving relationship and family you deserve.
Don't worry Kal I'm watching, reading, hoping, praying, I will keep an eye on you through this difficult period.
naej,
Originally Posted By: naej
Your mum will be as they say here "over the moon" May God bless you as you prepare to be confirmed and become a full member of Christs Church.Gosh I,m happy to and I don't even know you.
W seems quite pleased as well, she didn't think I would follow through with it, I went to my first preparation class and it was really interesting.
Everythings fine, I'm on these boards everyday reading, but not always posting.
Saturday evening,I'm just back from the football match, (I'm sorry I know you don't like football).
Sunday I take D7 swimming, Monday I have a preparation class for my confirmation.
The only real drama recently was I took Rob's advice and I've not made a real fuss over sex, just been nice and caring with W. Anyway during October W has initiated twice but it hasn't happened for us. I mean alarm goes off at 5.45 in the morning, 5.50 I get a digs in the ribs, W wants a quickie but is not really making an effort. I'm thinking I need to be in the shower 6.00am so I'm not late for work, so its hardly romantic and it would be all rushed. So after the second time W accuses me of "denying her". When I told her I'd make it up to her she got annoyed and said "How can you I'm on my monthly cycle now". So I can't win can I, I've not made a fuss I'm just getting on with things.
I take the 10 min option as a starter and it may lead to a better timed bit later. (sorry if that sounds crude but you get me right ?). Or, alternatively, secretly set the alarm for 15 mins earlier and then pretend you must of miss set the alarm by accident but you do now have 20 mins spare if W is interested.
I've no idea what it is with women and early morning quickies, my W was the same and that was never a good time for me as takes me 15 mins to get my head together....lol.
this early morning stuff was great at the beggining, then it petered away to nothing, now it appears out of the blue with now warning. I wouldn't mind a bit warning the night before, at least I would have had time to exercise some mind control over the "little man". Anyway for now it's take whats on offer and work on improving things.
About the footy on Saturday, 48 quid for a ticket, 2 for a fanzine, I didn't have any change for a pie and a pint. I may need to drop down a few divisions to see if the prices are cheaper.
Yeah right!!! Do you want a stamped application(by the Queen) and a previous short BUT detailed description of all activities planned, TMO and ETA? (aviation terms)
Hmmmm, something sounds weird here, I wonder what it is? S
