Hi, MWG, I am finally catching up with everyone after my wild-ride rollercoaster weekend (I posted about it on my thread), and just wanted to stop in and say hello, and tell you I'm thinking about you. Sounds like your H doesn't know which way is up right now! I hope he is getting close to the end of the tunnel. Also hope work goes well for you this week and that the new shoes help!
Take care of yourself! Thanks for all your support and advice; you are AMAZING!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
It was nice having the day off yesterday but I was so busy that I really did not have a chance to really relax. When you have just one day off, there is a lot to do, mainly chores, etc.
H texted me about 12:30 this morning with a goodnight, ILY message, and of course I will see him today. Gosh, four days in a row.
I better get going as I have some things to do. Won't get my shoes until sometime today so I have to wear what I have been wearing. Cannot wait to get the new ones.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sorry your h is so picky about the house. Yes h teenagers live here and it takes a lot to keep a house clean with kids.
If it was just you alone I am sure it would be a lot neater. I am sure my h thinks I live messy, but at least he helps out when he is over and doesn't complain.
Glad he is helping with finances. Have a good week MWG!
Yep, if it were not for me, the kitchen would be a huge mess, too. It drives me nuts but h does not see it messy as that is pretty clean.
He does help around here but he was grumpy for a few minutes then mellowed out.
Looks like I may have to work another six days again. I need at least two days off to get things done.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
i had to work today and yea! my new shoes came in and i think they will work out so much better as they have lots of support where i need it.
h came over and he seemed so much better today.
i got i love you/miss you texts from him about 12:30 AM this morning as well.
we mainly sat outside, kissed some, sat outside for about 4 hours, i had my feet resting on his knees as i was sitting across from him. it was nice and S17 sat with us for a little while.
we didn't do that computer stuff very much but discussed some work related items.
he left about 8:30 and i walked him to the car. he kissed me so passionately and then i said to him that it looks like i have off on thursday, did he want to do something or hangout and he said yes. then i said something like i would see him on thursday then. he said no, maybe sooner than that. i said to him that he can come over anytime and, he could come over everyday if he wanted to. he said maybe he will. then he kissed me some more said he loved me a lot, etc.
for the first time in a long time, there is definitely something brewing. i know, zero expectations and that is where i am keeping things and i am still doing my praying, etc.
it was a great day to start the week.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
H sent me some nice texts about 1:30AM telling me he misses and loves his wife, is grateful i am still his wife type talk.
All I have been doing is praying, no pressure on him at all, and being kind.
Sounds like he plans on coming over a lot more, too. We'll see.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
M, Glad the new shoes arrived and they are comfortable. As for your h, he may be having a "less pressured" time of it over at his living quarters. I'm very pleased to see that he was in a better mood.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
