I say it again....your W knows exactly how to reel you in and when. She plays you like a fine fiddle. I find your description of her to be that of one very manipulative woman.....and I think you know that.
Deep down I believe you know that you are going to have to follow through on your threat to leave. As things stand at the moment there is no doubt in my mind that she WILL see OM when he visits. It also sounds like she plays OM from your previous posts....and she thrives on being in the center of all this adoration. Wow....two guys fighting over her....what an aphrodisiac.
If I were you I would have somewhere to move in readiness for OM's visit in case she does make contact so that you can make a quick exit. I don't think it will be long before she follows.
You are so close to cracking this one. Deep down she is too scared to lose you, for whatever reason, otherwise she would have ditched you by now. I don't know if it's because you are a better sugar daddy to her, (sorry for being so cynical).
She uses sex to reel you in - to be honest it would be cheaper and less emotionally stressful to visit a hooker or buy a blow up doll - I know it's not the same but I am feeling frustrated by your situation.
She always comes back when you act strong but fair.....keep hold of that. She acts badly when she thinks she has you on the run.
Maybe contacting OM again and telling him a bit more about the way your W is reacting might be enough to stop to him trying to hook up with her when he visits.
GH, so far, when has she NOT followed when you have moved on? Just keep a hold of that thought. She was fed up with you when moved back to Australia because it threw a spanner in her works....but she still followed.
Stick to your guns man........ Me thinks she needs you more than you need her.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Me thinks she needs you more than you need her. 