"He is f****ed up in the head. That is the bottom line"
Funny. Ok, not funny, as it is your life, but it came out funny. Wow, your day yesterday sounded interesting. I didnt post on my thread about it, but I too got a message, that basically I am psychically connected to my ex (which I always believed and you mentioned this to about that Venus-Pluto stuff etc) and also, that I had more power to effect him and his thoughts than I realised, even at a distance. There is a connecton, as twice now, I have been about to hit send and I got an email from him there and then. Then this morning, I got my phone out and looked at it, I just knew.. and then, a minute later, his text arrived.
I thikn its positive that your H is starting to vocalise his confusion and regret more...perhaps that means he has been processing it and owning it internally and has got to the point of being able to begin to speak about it. My ex already went through depression (and might still be) so I am not sure what stage he is in! Ow stage, at least. No idea!
We're all in such a strange boat hey.
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread