OK all. I have arranged with D16 and S13 to have a talk with them tomorrow. Despite what W says, they DO NOT FEEL that we need to have the counsellor present - they are perfectly fine talking to me alone. I gave them the choice and that is what they want.
So I will listen. They can spill their hearts out - I will listen. When it is my turn, I will not bad mouth W. I will, however, speak the truth. This is W's decision alone - they know that already.
Wish me luck! Any advice? This has been one F'd up weekend without a doubt.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.