HI Mof3
I skimmed through your posts and think I got the highlights.

You had an A for 8 months a few years ago and denied this for 3 to 4 years. During that time things in the M were not good including a seperation. Recently you came clean about the affair and he left. Now you are trying to repair the damage but he is not showing much interest.

Is that a fairly accurate assesment in short form?

As far as Sandi2 saying you are doing everything wrong what I think she means is that you are not handling things as DR says.

Examples are patience, not getting angry, no pleading, etc.


M 39, W 35
D7, S5
Friends 18+ Together 11+
Married 8
ILYBINILWY 4/7/07 - A BOMB 4/29/07
Seperated 5/16/07 - D Filed
She Moved out 7/1
D Busted 6/15/08